I’ve never really gone with the option of choosing what I want to look like because my usual hairdresser is filled with huge, burly, bald men who wrestle for fun. I know that doesn’t mean much irl, but that’s not exactly a supportive feminine atmosphere from my point of view.
Anyway, I’m getting up tomorrow, washing and brushing my hair, shaving and then, hopefully, go get a do I can be proud of.
However, I’m not sure what I’d like. I have fairly wavy dark brown hair that, when not treated (uh, surprisingly often actually) curls at the ends. Atm it’s pretty long and falls just below my shoulders. I’m going to ask about getting it layered so it’ll sit smoother, but other than that, I’m completely clueless as to what to get done. One friend told me to ask them to help, but I’m not entirely sure, what do you guys think?
Who’d be up to watch?
featuring squishy the oddish
This is cute, k? K.
Commission for ~chibiachika of his OC, Sonnet.
Commissions are still open!
I have actually done this before, but with Violyre instead. In this case, it’s Sonnet with a banwhip, because apparantly that’s a thing.
Oh you know, just working on my game
real important work, nbd
a really quick sketch of a ponified me. lllD
I wake up the stars at night?
yah. let’s go with that.
a ref. for:
sorry it’s not interesting. lllD
This is awesome :o
Although I do have to ask, does she have a name? o3o
I thought the second picture had Luna with short hair.
Short hair Luna looks adorable in my head.
Someone give this guy a motherfuckin’ certificate.
I reblog every time
this guy deserves more than a certificate
He deserves a certificate for continually making unwanted advances toward a girl who made it clear she didn’t want any of it&then because she didn’t reciprocate his weird obsession she’s being called a dick? Um no.
oh my fucking god,give me a break. The dude was APARENTLY in love with the fucking girl,he was trying to be nice,he wasn’t faking any feelings,he tried and tried and he failed until he realised that this girl was aparently a grade A bitch and now you’re bashing him for trying? Fuck off alright? Your little charade is over i’ve had enough of your fucking bullshit and i won’t take it anymore. I’m taking a fucking stand here.
Sorry, but Imma step in and disagree. This girl is a bitch because this dude is a freaking stalker? Sorry but no. I don’t care how much he’s “in love” no means no. He should have taken the hint instead of stalking her for 3 years. That shit is fucking creepy. There’s nothing wrong with trying to show someone you “love” them, but to repeatedly do it for 3 fucking years after you’ve been shot down multiple times is wrong and shouldn’t be praised.
Dat’s all I gotta say.
I’m not sure which side I’m on after hearing these arguments .w.
May I take a moment for all these other people? You’re looking at it the complete wrong way. This isn’t a matter of ‘I was nice, date me!’
It was a matter of ‘I was nice, please display some sort of common decency in return’. She didn’t have to say yes to him, sure, but the fact is that she didn’t even bother valuing what he’d done for her. Sure, he could’ve wanted a quick-lay, but we can’t judge on what we don’t know from the source.
I could understand backing off when somebody makes unwanted advances, but he got her band tickets and she took them without really valuing what they were for. If she’d had the common decency to at least tell him that she didn’t want to go with him, instead of taking tickets that likely cost a lot of money and not giving him any sort of recognition for that, she would’ve been less at fault.
It’s not a matter of a creeper following a girl around (an assumed 1 thought out advance a year isn’t exactly selfish, obsessed and creepy), it’s a matter of someone going out of their way for somebody else and not getting respected for that.
Not all guys are creepers ladies.
And for the record, no disrespect to anybody. I’m just making do with the source at hand.
Well, I knew it wouldn’t go well, but it still wasn’t easy. Basically, if I want to pursue transgender treatment, I have to leave home. As it goes, I’m furious that a parent couldn’t put aside her beliefs for just a moment to help her /son/, even if that son was trying to change his gender.
Either way, I don’t want to stay here anymore anyway, so I’m /always/ taking commissions from now on, unless something drastic happens. As for the current commissions at hand, I’m going to be mowing through them as quickly as possible so that I can get onto more work. All money will either go towards transgender treatment or to the funds needed to carry me to the US (along with necessary supplies such as female clothing to actually fit the changed gender, a tablet, just in case I’m incapable of transporting my PC with me, so that I can continue drawing and upload, a phone, and backup emergency funds).
This means a lot to me, so if you could spread the word, I’d really appreciate it. I could really use the help, now more than ever.
(I went to my GP this morning and got a referral to a local psychiatrist. I’ll have to wait 4-8 weeks, which, again, is pretty poor, but whatever, at least it gives me time to get a head start on things.)
EDIT: I forgot to say thank you to all the people that offered support in coming out to my parents. Thank you all, it means a lot to me and I really appreciate it! Also a shout-out to ~Estioarem, who has been an amazing, supportive and accepting friend and companion through this so far.
Softcore NSFW under the cut.